VERSUS: What does being a coach mean to you?
Kevin: How long have you got? It’s a multitude of things! First of all, you are looking at trying to help others. Help them maximise their potential. We are guiding people with knowledge and experiences. Coaching is meant to be an interaction that helps others to be better
You are currently the U18’s coach at Charlton. A club you were a trainee at. How important is it to you to have a connection to the players you are coaching?
It’s one of the first things I was super appreciative of the Academy Manager at the time, Steve Avery for choosing me after the selection process. Being back here and having the feeling I had when I was younger - It’s a real thing.
A lot of the surroundings are the same, You walk around and relive the memories and stories of times past. Sometimes I phone some of the players who I came through the ranks through like Jon Fortune and saying “Remember when we used to do this?”.
It means a lot. I know what the boys are going through here, having been here myself which is super important.
How much of your lived experience and upbringing plays a part in the type of coach you are today?
I think it’s huge. So much so, I am super mindful now of how I coach. I want the young people to have the best experience possible from me. I want it to enable them to have self-belief and to realise that with good work and habits, they can reach the heights they want to reach.
I had that. I want to give that back to others.
Part of your journey is becoming a legend at local team Dulwich Hamlet. What does South London mean to you?
I am South London born and bred. Most of my close friends are from the area. Growing up with these people and playing football together is a feeling like no other.
Dulwich Hamlet was interesting because that was me going from the pro game, into Semi-pro to play and help out coaching. I loved getting my hands on those boys with a lot of raw talent in and around South London and helping them. South London means everything to me. I grew up near Millwall but Charlton is where things happened for me.
Thinking about your playing career and journey within coaching, why is it important for players to have a coach like yourself?
It’s important because there is a sense of relatability. Honesty too. I pride myself on a high level of care. I also like to challenge my players. Part of being a coach is creating a safe environment and I believe that often comes from the relatability I have with my group.
Did you always think coaching was a potential pathway for you?
Yes and no.
When I used to leave these training grounds as a YTS back in the day, I had three very close friends. Gavin Tomlin, Craig Rocastle and Kevin George. They always used to ask me to come to the park so I could show them what I was doing at training.
They wanted to have that elite experience I was getting. Via doing that with them, Kevin George ended up at Charlton and signed a pro. Craig Rocatsle would go from Kingstonian to Chelsea and Gavin Tomlin ended up playing for Slough then going through to Brentford. All did good bits in their careers.
From that aspect, coaching was always within me. I like to always share my knowledge.
How have you benefited from being on the Professional Player to Coach Scheme?
I have benefited hugely. It could not have come at a better time for me. I spent a good time with Dulwich Hamlet before going on to Cray Valley in which we won the league and got to the final of the Vase at Wembley.
For me, it was about the next step. Stepping into the professional game. Can I transfer what I know into an elite environment? I wanted to test myself.
Being on the scheme itself was very insightful. The best parts for me were mostly the parts away from the grass. Going to companies like Google, going up mountains and team bonding alongside learning about leadership and how to have difficult conversations.
All of these things helped me feel more well rounded with my coaching.
What has the process been from getting onto the scheme to your coaching position today?
I initially saw an advert and applied for the first cohort. I never managed to get on the first time around so I applied again. That was not successful but the third time round, I landed a placement with Charlton.
Prior to that, my coaching journey starts with me being a player/coach at Dulwich with coaching responsibilities for the academy. I was there for 7 years before going to Cray Valley for 4 years. We won the league and lost the final at Wembley. I then do 23 months with Chalrlton on the scheme I coach across various age groups. Some of my U18’s boys, I have coached at U14 level. I have been on a journey with them. Last season with these boys, we won the league!